by Constance Clancy | Sep 18, 2019 | Blog
Q: I recently left a toxic relationship that I know I stayed in too long. Can you suggest some ways to work on healing and regaining my self-worth? A: First of all, know that it takes courage to leave a relationship. Then the healing begins. If you find yourself...
by Constance Clancy | Sep 18, 2019 | Blog
Q: My fiancee and I are planning to be married in six weeks and he keeps procrastinating his part of the planning. It is small with just family but there are still things to be done. What should I do? A: You may want to talk to him and let him know that “we” have some...
by Constance Clancy | Sep 18, 2019 | Blog
Q: Why do people try to control others? A: Control is a way to have power over others through fear. We control out of fear. Fear can emerge from distrust of self and others, therefore, we feel overwhelmed and helpless, thus control. One way to reduce the amount of...
by Constance Clancy | Sep 18, 2019 | Blog
Q: I just moved from a small town to the city and I am searching for a job in my career field. I am getting anxious letting fear and doubt creep in. What would you suggest? A: Moving is in itself a big stressor. Give yourself credit for having the courage to make this...
by Constance Clancy | Sep 18, 2019 | Blog
Q: How can I help my boyfriend to show his vulnerability? He tries to act so tough and I know he is vulnerable. A: Vulnerability is something that all of us have. However, depending on how we were raised, many struggle to show their vulnerable self. The male...
by Constance Clancy | Sep 18, 2019 | Blog
Q: I realize that I am an impatient person and I want to be more patient, but it’s not going very well. Can you please tell me some ways I can become more patient? A: If you were to ask most people if they are patient, I think you would get an overwhelming no. We...
