Q: I am in a fairly new relationship and I really want this to work. I don’t want to sabotage this one as I have done this in the past. What are some guidelines to help this relationship last?
A: The fact that you have this desire means you can do everything in your power to have a successful relationship. Of course, it takes two to dance the dance. Your partner has a role in this too.
The first step is to set the intention of this relationship to succeed. You want to feel worthy of this partnership and trust that it can be healthy. Ask the Universe to have your back on this and trust the process. Tend to your relationship and have your own independence as well. It’s healthy to have a nice balance and continue to have time for yourself and your friends. Appreciate all of the people in your life because what you appreciate appreciates. Use emotional cognition to enhance your happiness.
Be sure to surround yourself with the support of family and friends. I have seen too often people getting into relationships and ditching those around them until there is a breakup and all of a sudden they need their friends and family. Create a support system that helps you stay focused on living your best life. See the world as your family. If not already, feel a sense of love and connection to all of humanity. This will keep you grounded and open to continue to cultivate and nurture all relationships.
No matter how your new relationship unfolds, you will be glad you tended to all relationships.