Q: Can you help me develop some tools to learn before I bring a new partner into my life?
A: The first tool is to listen to your inner voice when you are debating about bringing a potential partner into your life. If you do and it still doesn’t work out, look for the greater good that the relationship gave you. We are in a relationship to learn and grow.
- Ask yourself if the person is a expansion of who you are.
- Is the person in alignment with his/her actions?
- Assess your own unhealed wounds and ask yourself if you are ready for partnership if you have unhealed wounds. You most likely still have healing work to do.
- It is not our job to heal anyone else.
- You also do not have control over anyone.
- Whatever your potential partner offers you, you ca enjoy the expansion.
- Be aligned with your true self. That’s all that matters.
- There are no mistakes, only lessons and you either grow from them or repeat them.
- Feel empowered just as you are.
- Allow breakdowns to become breakthroughs.